I've been chuckling over how readers suddenly found this blog, not for the 427 articles on Israel and terrorism but for the one of me answering questions about Judaism. I still have no idea how this happened.
At any rate, I want to emphasize that while I love answering questions and I love giving advice (I happen to love the religion as well!), I ain't no rabbi and serious questions that need accurate and sensitive answers should go to an Ask the Rabbi site, such as
Aish.com Ask the Rabbi (requires registration)
Ohr Somayach Ask the Rabbi
Arutz Sheva Ask the Rabbi
But I will be happy to do what I can, for what it is worth.