Tuesday, October 03, 2017
Elder of Ziyon
A regular man, Niv Nehemiah would have
preferred to remain anonymous. His family takes no comfort in being told that
he is a hero. They want him to heal, to stop being in so much pain.
Two months after the terror attack in the
Yavneh grocery store, where he works, everything is a challenge. He can now
walk with support. Slowly, painfully. His speech is improving. The knife that plunged
in to his head and his neck, ripped his vocal cords, missing the jugular by
millimeters.
Real heroes don’t look like comic book
super-heroes. They aren’t necessarily big, strong or muscular. They are people,
uncomfortable with the title. When told they are heroes, they tend to blink,
look away and then say: “I just did what I had to do.” Or, like WW2 veterans
say: “the heroes are the ones that did not come home.”
When asked about his heroism, Niv says
simply: “I’m not a hero…. The main thought I had in my head was that I am
fighting for my life for my children and my wife.”
When asked if he had to relive the
attack, would he choose to run away, Niv answers: “No. The instinct is to fight,
for your family.”
The signs of his injuries still very
visible, Niv is in obvious pain. For him, the battle against the terrorist is
not over. He has difficulty swallowing. The things we do with ease, without
even thinking about them are difficult for Niv and yet he has decided that he
wants to attend the trial of the terrorist.
When asked why, Niv explains: “It’s not
to show that I won, that I am out of this a ‘hero’. It is to show the people of
Israel that we stood against terror and won.”
It is not easy to look your would-be
murderer in the eye. It is not easy to look calm and dignified when you are in
pain. Niv’s personal battle is now to heal but yet again he is thinking of
something bigger than himself. During the attack it was his family. Now it is
his Nation. His indomitable spirit will not accept anything less than victory.
This is what heroism looks like.
Beware the person who claims the title of
hero with ease and with pride. They are not worthy.
Courage is usually considered to be lack
of fear but that is not true. Niv’s courage during the attack came from
terrible fear of never again seeing the people he loves most. Niv’s courage to
stand in front of his attacker, to show that although the terrorist broke his
body he could not break Niv’s spirit – that comes from sheer determination.
Heroism is not about being stronger than
other people, it is about loving something more than yourself.
Click on the link to view Israel’s
Channel Two news item about Niv Nehemiah. Even if you don’t understand the
language, Niv’s strength, despite his injuries, is obvious: http://www.mako.co.il/news-israel/local-q3_2017/Article-38742fed8e3de51004.htm
