Something
both fascinating, enraging and terribly sad happened this past week.
Like
the honest storybook child who pointed out that the “Emperor has no clothes,”
President Trump said two words no one wanted to hear, pointing out a situation
many recognize but most are afraid to mention.
Disloyal
Jews.
With
a piercing, instinctive understanding, Trump put a spotlight on an identity
crisis in the Jewish community.
“Who am I being disloyal to?!”
An
indignant American Jewish Democrat asked me, who he is being disloyal to. He
was angry and he really didn’t understand – and that is what makes this issue
so very sad…
Context
President
Trump’s quote about “disloyal Jews” was part of a statement regarding Israel
barring Ilhan Omar and Rashida Tlaib from touring the country, due to their
active involvement in the BDS movement.
The
media coverage, whether through sloppy reporting or deliberate spin, sparked
rage and gave birth to numerous accusations against the President including:
·
“He is invoking a classic
antisemitic trope about dual loyalty” – the idea that Jews can’t be
loyal to the land of their birth.
This idea is historically ridiculous considering that Jewish leadership always instructed Jews to be loyal to the laws of the land and not stand out too much because being too different from the neighbors put Jewish lives in danger.
This idea is historically ridiculous considering that Jewish leadership always instructed Jews to be loyal to the laws of the land and not stand out too much because being too different from the neighbors put Jewish lives in danger.
·
“This is just proof of how
hateful and divisive he is”
·
“He told Netanyahu to bar
Congresswomen Tlaib and Omar from Israel to gain political points and Netanyahu
did his bidding” – a comment that completely disregards Israel as a
sovereign nation that makes its own decisions and actually has a law barring
BDS supporters from entering the country
·
He hates Tlaib and Omar
because they are successful Muslim women
·
“If he means we should be
loyal to him or to the Republican Party he’s just insane and should be
impeached”
Listening to what he actually said paints a picture, 180 degrees opposite of the media
spin.
He
was answering the question:
“Ilhan
Omar said the United States should rethink its policy of aid towards Israel
after she and Congresswoman Tlaib were denied entry… Should there be any change
in US aid to Israel?”
His
answer was unequivocal.
“No.
And you should see the terrible things that Tlaib has said about Israel. And
AOC +3… Omar is a disaster for Jewish people. I can’t imagine, if she has any
Jewish people in her district that they could possibly vote for her.”
He
proceeded to call out Rashida Tlaib’s tearful anti-Israel press conference, recalling
her behavior at his campaign rallies before she became a Congresswoman:
“I
saw a woman who was violent and vicious and out of control and all of a sudden
I see this person who is crying because she can’t see her grandmother. She
could see her grandmother. They gave her permission to see her grandmother but
she grandstanded and she didn’t want to do it. That’s a decision of Israel…
They [Israel] could let them [Tlaib and Omar] in if they want but I don’t think
they want to. If you read the things they’ve said about Israel and if you look
at their itinerary before they found out [that they would not be allowed to
enter Israel], you take a look at their itinerary, it was all going to be a
propaganda tour against Israel. So I don’t blame Israel for doing what they
did. I had nothing to do with it but I don’t blame them for doing what they
did. I think it would have been very bad to let them in. Including the four.
I’m talking about all four but these two, Omar and Tlaib. I think it would be a
very bad thing for Israel but Israel has to do what they have to do but I would
not cut off aid to Israel. I can’t believe we are even having this
conversation. Five years ago, the concept of even talking about this — even
three years ago — of cutting off aid to Israel because of two people that hate
Israel and hate Jewish people — I can’t believe we’re even having this
conversation! Where has the Democratic Party gone? Where have they gone where
they’re defending these two people over the State of Israel? And I think any
Jewish people that vote for a Democrat — it shows either a total lack of
knowledge or great disloyalty.”
Antisemitic trope and disingenuous rage
Anyone
who can understand English cannot possibly listen to what Trump said and
believe there is a modicum of Jew-hate behind his words. In fact, all the
accusations against him simply evaporate when you pay attention to what he
said:
·
He was speaking about AOC
+3, not just Tlaib and Omar.
·
He had nothing to do with
barring the Congresswomen from Israel but he does understand and support
Israel’s decision.
·
Tlaib was given special humanitarian
permission to visit her grandmother – on the condition she didn’t turn her
visit into a BDS propaganda display. She refused, choosing hate over her
grandmother.
·
Trump expressed deep
dismay at the change in the Democratic Party -
Israel was always a by-partisan consensus and now they choose to support haters like Omar and Tlaib rather than doing what the Party always did – stand for Israel. He wasn’t attacking the Democratic Party as a representative of the Republicans. He was asking as an American, how the values of the Party became so perverted.
Israel was always a by-partisan consensus and now they choose to support haters like Omar and Tlaib rather than doing what the Party always did – stand for Israel. He wasn’t attacking the Democratic Party as a representative of the Republicans. He was asking as an American, how the values of the Party became so perverted.
And
antisemitism? I am old enough to remember Presidents Obama, Bush and Clinton.
None of them ever showed so much genuine concern for the well-being of the
Jewish People.
The
indignation and rage over Trump’s remarks are disingenuous and, well… enraging.
Identity politics
In
a world of identity politics and intersectionality it is a tragedy that there
are Jews who do not comprehend the basic truth behind what President Trump
said.
The
Jewish People are family. In a family, no matter how much you disagree, you are
supposed to protect your relatives from attack by outsiders. Just think of the
brother who bullies his sister but beats the snot out of anyone who treats her
poorly. That is what family is supposed to do.
Donald
Trump instinctively understands what so many American and even Israeli Jews
have forgotten about their own identity. Watching the way he lives his life and
who he trusts, it is obvious that Trump sees value and strength in blood ties
(wives can be replaced, children cannot). It is his children who he trusts and
counts on the most. That’s why it is easy for him to recognize that the Jewish
People are one family and no matter how much we love the lands we were born in
or have other issues of interest, family comes first – or at least it should.
One
doesn’t get to choose your relatives. We don’t always like our family members.
We Jews have family who bring us pride (like Gal Gadot) and we have the
problematic ones (like crazy Uncle Bernie). But it’s not supposed to matter -
no matter how far apart we live or how different our ideas are, when facing an
external threat, family is supposed to defend its members (we can go back to
fighting after the threat is dealt with).
That’s
what Trump was talking about.
Family
that doesn’t come to the defense of other family members, particularly when
their lives are threatened, are disloyal:
Jews
who heard Israel say the Iran deal puts our lives in danger and supported it
anyway.
Jews
who saw how Obama treated Israel and voted for him the second time too.
Jews
who choose socialism over Judaism. Who choose local politics over the politics
of survival of our people and the safety of our ancestral homeland.
Jews
who say that the hatred is directed at Israel, caused by Israel and not at
Jews.
Just
like German Jews said: “We’re not Jews, we are Germans of the Mosaic faith (the
faith of Moses).” Sadly it was their neighbors who taught them otherwise. Jews
are Jews first, no matter how they self-identify.
Jews
who blame terror attacks against Israelis on “the occupation” and Netanyahu
rather than the terrorists and the leaders that poisoned the minds of young
people, raising a generation to believe that murdering Jews is an honorable act
– those Jews aren’t just disloyal to family. They are disloyal to the Jewish
ideals of morality, justice and common human decency.
Donald
Trump was talking about Jews who rush to stand in solidarity with Ilhan Omar
and their “Muslim sisters” and don’t cry for Rina Shnerb.
Jews
who choose those who hate and wish to destroy their family because it is the
current fad in the Democratic Party. In my opinion that’s also disloyalty to
America because America was founded on morality and acceptance of all people.
Allowing a political party that represents half of the country to be led by
people who incite hate, lie and front for actual terrorists is a betrayal of
the entire American people, not just the Jews. Israel was always a bi-partisan
issue. The security of Israel is in the best interest of the United States. Undermining
this is bad for everyone.
THAT
is what Trump was talking about when he said: “I can’t believe we are
even having this conversation.”
Trump
was gracious enough to give those Jews an excuse – possibly they are terribly
ignorant about politics and don’t understand what is going on. That’s a much
nicer possibility than willfully endangering and consciously betraying your own
family.
I
am less gracious.
Israel
is wary of calling out disloyal Jews. Our numbers are so small, the idea that a
large fraction of our people might break away from us is frightening.
Considering the reality, I believe that it is worse to pretend the problem
doesn’t exist and let the damage continue to be done from within by Jews who
have turned against our family, who undermine our safety, delegitimize our
history and side with those attempting to eliminate our future.
This
isn’t a matter of the Republican Party vs the Democratic Party. This is a
matter of policies that have a direct and immediate effect on my family.
The
years of Clinton-Obama foreign policy caused so much damage to Israel and the
entire Middle East that it is mind-boggling. The amount of bloodshed that
occurred is so shocking that the world, particularly Americans seem to have
promptly forgotten all about it.
Endangering
the State of Israel, empowering Iran, denying our right to self-defense and
supporting the denial of our connection to our ancestral homeland and holy
places via the UN are just the beginning. The rest of the Middle East suffered
too, much more than Israel has. These are just a few examples:
·
In Egypt - ousting Mubarak,
supporting the Muslim Brotherhood, looking the other way when Christians were
slaughtered and delegitimizing Sisi
·
In Iran – Remaining silent
when the government shot young people in the streets during the Green
Revolution, the Iran deal, enabling arms acquisition amnd shipment to
Hezbollah, threatening Israel’s borders.
·
In Iraq – leaving a vacuum
which enabled the rise of ISIS and subsequent slaughter of thousands, genocide
of Yazidis, sex slavery, torture organ theft and more
·
The war in Yemen
·
Destabilizing Libya,
Benghazi… does anyone remember Benghazi and the time American soldiers were
given the order to stand down when Americans were under attack?!
Anyone
who wonders why most Israelis hated Obama and love Trump should reread the list
above. Israelis are not crazy or stupid, we are judging by results.
I
didn’t expect Trump to be a good President. He has surprised me beyond my
wildest dreams. His actions have undone a lot of the damage done by the
previous administration. He has fulfilled the broken promises of multiple
American administrations. Over and over he has spoken out against Jew hate – in
America and abroad.
To
him I say, thank you Mr. President.
To
everyone else I say, if you support a policy or a politician that puts my life
and that of my family in danger, I have a problem with you. If you are Jewish
and you do that, you deserve the title of “disloyal Jew.”
You
are being disloyal to ME. My family. My friends. My neighbors.